Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment. (Proverbs 18:1 ESV)
It’s in isolation that we feel most justified. Why? Well, it seems to me that there is something in us that thrives in “adversity.” It’s a rebel force. It’s the love of the underdog. Only when you choose to isolate yourself it’s not adversity that did it to you, it’s a reproachable behavior that causes you to withdraw. It’s your own desire. It always starts out as a small thing, but if you don’t watch out, your life becomes islolated because you cannot live in the community you once did, and before you realize it you end up in another community. miserable.
If you have the desire of Christ you will live in community. That’s what he did. That’s what we must do. Sound judgment will lead you to loving relationships and community.
If you realize you’re isolated, repent and identify why. It may save your life.
so let’s get together.
Andy